The Philosophy of Modern Song: Mother in Law

 

Continuing our look at the songs Bob chose in his book, The Philosophy of Modern Song.

By Tony Attwood

Ernest Kador Jr.  was born in 1933 and died in 2001, aged 68, and was primarily known for the song “Mother in Law” with which he had a number 1 hit (as singer but not as songwriter) in 1961.

It is quite widely reported that the singer on the recording of ” Mother-in-Law ” didn’t like the song and didn’t want it released, and it was only the persuasions of the other band members that gave the song a reprieve.    That record was a number 1 hit – the only number 1 hit that Kador had.  In fact I think it was the only top 40 hit he ever had.  The lyrics (in case you need them – which I doubt) are reproduced below.

 Mother-in-law, mother-in-law
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law
The worst person I know
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law
She worries me so
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law
If she leave us alone
We would have a happy home
Sent from down below
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law
Sin should be her name
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law
To me they are about the same
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law
Everytime I open my mouth
Then she tries to put me out
How could she stoop so low
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law
I come home with my pay
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law
She ask me what I made
Mother-in-law, mother-in-law
She thinks her advice is a constitution
If she would leave that should be the solution
And don't come back no more
My mother-in-law, mother-in-law.

Certainly, the song is very unusual for starting with the line “The worst person I know…” with the reference that she was sent from hell to annoy the singer.   It is, I think, a unique contribution to the genre.

So that is the heart of the singer’s popularity and the fact that we remember him, but Bob has chosen a different song, as noted at the top of this piece.  Although we can hear the continuity of the style, particularly with the use of the backing vocals, and with the simplicity of the chord sequence, the featuring of the piano part, and the use of accompanying vocals.

I find it rather interesting that Bob has a particular feeling for songs of this nature, which is such a long way away from his own approach to songwriting and performing.

It is a recording that is very much in keeping with the era, with the backing of the female chorus and the bass male vocalist whose entire job is to sing the word “No”.   The recording also uses the popular 1950s approach of an instrumental verse led by a tenor saxophone, which is followed by a re-run of the verse.

For me, it’s ok to play through once, but beyond that, it just is repetitive, although the idea of dropping the vocal “No” for the last verse, until the final bar, is quite interesting.   But then again, “quite interesting” isn’t really enough.    And indeed, such a thing would never be enough for Bob.

What I guess this choice emphasises is just how diverse Bob’s knowledge of early pop and rock music is, and just how diverse his listening was in his youth.   So I reach the view in the end, this is just another one of those songs that Bob listened to and remembered, but which didn’t actually affect his songwriting in any way.

However, I would like to include another song by the same singer – “A long way back home”  I think if I were asked to choose a song by this artist, I would be more inclined to go for this one.  But then of course, I can’t write songs like Bob.  But if you have a moment, do give it a play – it shows the range of the artist’s vocal ability.

Previously in this series

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2 Responses to The Philosophy of Modern Song: Mother in Law

  1. Larry Fyffe says:

    Let me know when you are able to receive an article

  2. Tony Attwood says:

    Sorry Larry – still no joy – hoping to have a new computer installed and running early next week.

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